Wednesday, May 18, 2011

MY IMF CHIEF AND MR MACHO ARNOLD

How many questions can we ask or how do we weigh the pain.....its not justified and no amount of tears can wash the deeds away. No man is super after all, as we are beginning to learn, that even mighty men can fall and no doubt, if a married man should start welcome the advances of strange women, for lack of words or invites it out of his will, then his falling is certain. The woman's issue,what some will say the other woman. People never learn and even with this, you still hear people judge Mr Dominique and Mr Arnold....its not about judging them, this is a lesson for us to learn from. That no matter how high a man is or how much influence he wills,if he is caught pants down, its dangerous position to be caught.
I bet Mr IMF is reflecting and possibly contemplating suicide, i am sure he has many things running through his head and you will ask, how could he have stooped so low or some will say, they man just fell for a trap....and so is Arnold. What ever pushed them to such situations is no longer important, we continually just question why, search our hearts for answers and the pain, disappointments of both families can not be measured, doubts and disgrace lingers but beyond all these, i want to live inside these men and think through their minds. Its a fact they are suffering already and its only goes to say much about men and their secret lives.Things like this can destroy families, separate couples as in the case of Maria and Arnold. Its a thing to be angry about but all that emotions will not do the good that forgiveness will do. We have to learn from Mrs Clinton, who expressed her brokenness in her book, LIVING HISTORY. The only way forward is forgiveness, even though it is really hard.
These men are just facing their secrets, dark secrets and thats because we have heard it. How about those we don't even know, will never know? It is not the common path but forgiveness is just it. This is the time for both men to think over what has become of their lives, if they do not have a place for God in their lives it is time to have that. They need to experience God and peace in their hearts. As a Christian, you will realize that the world is filled with chaos, all sorts of things but peace, togetherness is found only in JESUS. Outside, they will be judged and humanly speaking, they deserve it all.
In all these things, i believe only forgiveness works and it will take time to heal but Mrs Clinton knows better.Whatever emotions there is will not solve anything, it only leaves more hurt, anger and questions. Whatever analysis is being done, it can never do what forgiveness will do. Reputation is a waste right now and it will further show that this world and its glories are all vanity, chasing the wind. When a married man gets taken over the emotions that runs below the waste lines, when a man forgets what a strange woman is and when a man really cannot beyond his nose,then disgrace is not far off. We can say all we like, judge it all, give these men names but it will not wash it away....only forgiveness will and only God gives that grace.
Yesterday, i was listening to a radio and it was been argued that only a woman truly knows the paternity of her children. It is a topic of debate but sincerely, all these are takes of the flesh, the sins of the human flesh and the hunger to feed on something we will later discover, satisfieth not. It is the drive to be, achieve, the race to conceal our sins and the emptiness in what i will call foolishness. These heart broken women should not throw away their homes because, divorce will not wash it away, justifying their stand or taking the righteous stand will not wash it away, it is what the world wants and it only makes the news better.
They just have to forgive and the rest of us, should really learn from it. they are humans after all. Many men have their sins and it is sad, these guys have to deal with washing their dirty linen with feelings, thoughts of regrets, shame and doubts.It is life, shit happens. They men will have to deal with it, face it and find a way to move on. Forgiveness, as hard as it is, it is not impossible, having lived with a man for a considerable period of time, coped with all sorts of things in good and bad times, the children and the good times, the secrets shared.... just throwing it away, will not solve it. It may make it feel better instantly but it will not do what forgiveness can do. Besides, where do their families begin from? it is painful but forgiveness will make all the difference. The pain of this relationships......GOD HELP US! But what if there is another side to Mr Dominique's story? most people may not be interested....it is how the world is. Bad news sells and when Big men fall, we always relish those headlines.

WHAT SHEA BUTTER CAN DO FOR YOU

SHEA BUTTER
Shea butter (Butyrospermum parkii), also known as karite butter, is a cream-colored fatty substance made from the nuts of karite nut trees (also called Mangifolia trees) that grow in the savannah regions of West and Central Africa. Karite trees, or Shea trees, are not cultivated. They grow only in the wild, and can take up to 50 years to mature (they live up to 300 years!). In most parts of West Africa, destruction of the Shea tree is prohibited because this little nut provides a valuable source of food, medicine, and income for the population. In fact, Shea Butter is sometimes referred to as “women’s gold” in Africa, because so many women are employed in the production of Shea Butter. It known as ORI in the West and OKUME amongst the IGALA speaking people of Kogi State. The Trees are found around Middle belt region of Nigeria (Kogi, Nassarawa, Benue, Niger, Plateau and Kwara) North East (Taraba), some parts of the south west Region (Oyo, Ogun and Osun). It comes in white or light yellow, depending on the method of production, whatever the colour; the properties do not really differ. It is available at local herbal shops in some markets, sold in very small wraps for as low as N 50 and it comes in containers as much as N 300 but it can be gotten at interior local villages in large quantities.
Shea nuts are primarily grown in West and Central Africa in the semi-arid Sahel,referred to by traders as the "Shea Belt". Vitellaria paradoxa and Vitellaria nilotica are the two main varieties. Vitellaria paradoxais exported in the largest volume and grows throughout the West African region. Vitellaria nilotica is produced primarily in Northern Uganda and southern Sudan. Shea nut products, the solid fat (butter or stearin) and the liquid oil (olein), are ideal for use as raw materials in cooking oil,margarine, cosmetics, soap, detergents and candles, but it has found its primary market niche as a substitute for cocoa butter in the chocolate and confectionery industry.
Shea butter has been used to help heal burns, sores, scars, dermatitis, psoriasis, dandruff, and stretch marks. It may also help diminish wrinkles by moisturizing the skin, promoting cell renewal, and increasing circulation. Shea butter also contains cinnamic acid, a substance that helps protect the skin from harmful UV rays.
Shea butter is a particularly effective moisturizer because contains so many fatty acids, which are needed to retain skin moisture and elasticity. The high fatty acid content of Shea Butter also makes it an excellent additive to soap, shampoos, anti-aging creams, cosmetics, lotions, and massage oils—its soft, butter-like texture melts readily into the skin. Shea butter protects the skin from both environmental and free-radical damage. It contains vitamins A and E, and has demonstrated both antimicrobial and anti-inflammatory properties.
Unrefined Shea Butter is superior in that it retains all its natural vitamins, especially vitamin A and vitamin E. However, the natural smell of Shea can be a bit off-putting (stinky), though the aroma does disappear after it has been applied to your skin within minutes. You can also buy ultra-refined and refined Shea Butter. Both of these types have a more pleasing scent, colour, and consistency, although the refining process may diminish the vitamin potency. Not all Shea Butter products are created equal, and some products contain a significant amount of potentially irritating additives and very little real Shea Butter. That said, one hundred percent natural Shea Butter is a handy thing to have around the house. It can be used as an all-natural hair conditioner, moisturizer, and makeup remover, or as a treatment for burns, cuts, scrapes, sunburns, and diaper rash.
The concept is to source for Shea Butter Locally, Process it locally with the women around that area into buckets and then it will be packaged. After which it will available for sale. The source will be from the very best and the region with the best processing method. The whole process will be cost effective, to make it affordable, quality will not be compromised, the reason it will be hand-made processing the nuts, a process that will prevent loss of major nutrients and minerals, the very essence of natural Shea Butter. The sale of essential oil will compliment it; this gives target consumers the choice to mix it with the Shea Butter for those who will not like the natural smell. This will be pure, it will be sourced and processed locally, the essence it to retain the properties, the essence of nature. Mixing Shea Butter with some additives will alter the effectiveness as some properties will be lost. Traditionally, Shea Butter has proven to be effective used alone, even though some users mix with other local materials because of majorly the smell.

USES
Shea butter has been used to help heal burns, sores, scars, dermatitis, psoriasis, dandruff, and stretch marks. It may also help diminish wrinkles by moisturizing the skin, promoting cell renewal, and increasing circulation. Shea butter also contains cinnamic acid, a substance that helps protect the skin from harmful UV rays.

Shea butter is a particularly effective moisturizer because contains so many fatty acids, which are needed to retain skin moisture and elasticity. The high fatty acid content of shea butter also makes it an excellent additive to soap, shampoos, anti-aging creams, cosmetics, lotions, and massage oils—its soft, butter-like texture melts readily into the skin.

Shea butter protects the skin from both environmental and free-radical damage. It contains vitamins A and E, and has demonstrated both antimicrobial and anti-inflammatory properties.

Shea butter is already added to many cosmetic products, but you can also purchase 100 percent pure shea butter at most health food stores and from online distributors. Unrefined shea butter is superior in that it retains all its natural vitamins, especially vitamin A and vitamin E. However, the natural smell of shea can be a bit off-putting (stinky), though the aroma does disappear after it has been applied to your skin within minutes. You can also buy ultra-refined and refined shea butter. Both of these types are have a more pleasing scent, color, and consistency, although the refining process may diminish the vitamin potency.

Many online distributors sell shea butter in various sizes, containers, prices, and types, but make sure to do your research before buying them—not all shea butter products are created equal, and some products contain a significant amount of potentially irritating additives and very little real shea butter. That said, one hundred percent natural shea butter is a handy thing to have around the house. It can be used as an all-natural hair conditioner, moisturizer, and makeup remover, or as a treatment for burns, cuts, scrapes, sunburns, and diaper rash. Shea butter may also help treat skin problems such as eczema and psoriasis; however, keep in mind that you should always consult a physician or dermatologist about serious or persistent skin problems. Shea butter is not recommended for people with nut or latex allergies.