It is so easy to miss it. seriously! you just think you already know and that you have heard it but trust me, you can miss it. I do not need a prophet to tell me that i should build a life writing because it is easy, it comes to me effortlessly and i enjoy it but like most people, i was thinking white collar job is the "best thing". while this is true for those who enjoy their jobs, how about the rest of us? How many people genuinely enjoy their jobs? How many people will stay in their jobs now, if they employer told them they would no longer pay them?
Do What you love, it is one way to cope in this country. The politics is full of intrigues and i do not see how that puts food on my table.....this country, man must survive. People are clamoring for wages but honestly why isn't FG responding? NLC will continually battle and politics will remain. People really have to stop waiting on the Government and get their lives started. The plight of people is understandable but the whole thing helps me to see only one thing, we need to build our lives around what we love, something we enjoy.
What am i saying?
Look at Genevieve Nnaji, it does not matter what happens with the minimum wage drama or the economy, as concerned as she she is, she still has her life going on. Nothing like strike affects her. She will always be doing movies and she cashes in on it. What about D'banj, Tu Face, Beyonce? these people are stars, they will be shows, people will pay for their services. The shoe cobbler down the road, will get customers to pay as long as he makes good shoes, we will continue to wear shoes and that restaurant owner, we will continue to eat food. How about that dude on that white collar job? with all his qualifications, he is sackable (if English permits), the employer just needs only one reason and the cash flow stops, the undergraduate running around town for the job may be ambitious but that other dude who is learning how to make clothes will fair better believe me. The point is doing what you enjoy makes you a possible brand and you walk with it inside of you, nobody takes that away from you. Fela Durotoye is a brand, just like Beyonce, Rhianna: these people will do what they are doing even if you take away whatever you want. Beyonce will sing and Fela will talk.
With the way things are going and all the grammar we hear about economics, i wonder what happens to the unemployed? it is understandable to keep faith and hope but it is to look within and do what you enjoy. Do it so well and people will eventually pay for it. The struggle for white collar jobs is very huge and the pressure to get one is overwhelming. If people can do the Maths on what they are paid per hour on that "gorgeous Job" we will start considering what we are worth. this is no longer news but we still do not believe in what we can do, we limit what we are capable of. Many people do not see how they can make a life doing what they love. The world around here has no place for delayed gratification. There are loads of talents wasting with people stuck behind the desk, limited as cubicle dwellers and just afraid to take the step. People running after qualifications to work for someone of lesser or no qualifications. The world over has people discovering this secret. Do what you love. People are dumping their huge paying jobs for a simpler easy lives, a chance to focus on the important things in their lives! Do not get too busy to enjoy the simple things in life, too important to reach out to others, to occupied to live a life.
People spend time doing things that frustrate them, running after a job that they cannot get fulfillment from; they chase vain things and later in life they discover they have been running another man's race, struggling all their lives on the wrong course. We fear failure so much that we do not want to try things out, we just let things die inside of us and just pretend it is okay. People just choose to live in denial and just find a reason to stay a little bit longer.
Don't get lost in the rat race!
Imagine how much you could achieve doing what you love, putting just half of the effort you put in those frustrating and unproductive things in things that comes effortlessly to us? it is amazing. it is not easy to start but consistency and branding is key. If you love what you do, it will not be like work. There are boundless opportunities in Nigeria but because we believe in having qualifications for the white collar jobs and we want cash in on things now, that is why it looks hard. we are chasing money, while money is chasing us, we never get past hand-to-mouth living. we just run after cars, big houses, living choice areas while slaving on the wrong direction.If one in every 5 unemployed graduate should just consider building a life doing what they love, beginning now, you will see things change.
Have you wondered what Genevieve would have become if she was working a white collar job with the qualification she has now or D'banj, Tu Face, Beyonce, Rhianna, Nicki Minaj, Jay Jay Okacha, Kanu Nwankwo,Beyonce Knowles, Wayne Carter (Lil Wayne) Lionel Messi,Mercy Johnson, Adebayor Manu, Usian Bolts? the list is endless. What if you could bring those crazy imaginations in your head to life? what if you could make it happen? and what if they gave up because of they difficulties they were facing? they are mega stars and right now someone's life is changing doing what he/she loves. While the rest of Nigerians are complaining about what Government did or did not do, about things we cannot do anything about, some people are making huge cash doing what they love, they are living a life and they are not under any pressure of being sacked, missing on the important things in their lives. They are busy building a life they will not be able to live with their dreams fading before their eyes. A life like an assembling plant, doing the same thing over and over, no creativity, no use of initiative allowed, no adventure, a boring life!
There is so much we can be, if we let ourselves be, if we give our dreams the chance to be, if we could just take that chance. you never know. while you are there criticizing those stars, they are making their cash and i mean serious cash. Do not get caught up in the rat race, go get a life. Stop waiting for that big Oil job. People do not want to start small, so they go for the money but when they start, they feel it is okay, half way into it, they discover that their lives are entangled in the rat race. They are in a fix, messed up unfulfilled..... you deserve better, tell yourself that and run with it.
Make sure, you don't die Miserable, You can be more. Enjoy
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
MY IMF CHIEF AND MR MACHO ARNOLD
How many questions can we ask or how do we weigh the pain.....its not justified and no amount of tears can wash the deeds away. No man is super after all, as we are beginning to learn, that even mighty men can fall and no doubt, if a married man should start welcome the advances of strange women, for lack of words or invites it out of his will, then his falling is certain. The woman's issue,what some will say the other woman. People never learn and even with this, you still hear people judge Mr Dominique and Mr Arnold....its not about judging them, this is a lesson for us to learn from. That no matter how high a man is or how much influence he wills,if he is caught pants down, its dangerous position to be caught.
I bet Mr IMF is reflecting and possibly contemplating suicide, i am sure he has many things running through his head and you will ask, how could he have stooped so low or some will say, they man just fell for a trap....and so is Arnold. What ever pushed them to such situations is no longer important, we continually just question why, search our hearts for answers and the pain, disappointments of both families can not be measured, doubts and disgrace lingers but beyond all these, i want to live inside these men and think through their minds. Its a fact they are suffering already and its only goes to say much about men and their secret lives.Things like this can destroy families, separate couples as in the case of Maria and Arnold. Its a thing to be angry about but all that emotions will not do the good that forgiveness will do. We have to learn from Mrs Clinton, who expressed her brokenness in her book, LIVING HISTORY. The only way forward is forgiveness, even though it is really hard.
These men are just facing their secrets, dark secrets and thats because we have heard it. How about those we don't even know, will never know? It is not the common path but forgiveness is just it. This is the time for both men to think over what has become of their lives, if they do not have a place for God in their lives it is time to have that. They need to experience God and peace in their hearts. As a Christian, you will realize that the world is filled with chaos, all sorts of things but peace, togetherness is found only in JESUS. Outside, they will be judged and humanly speaking, they deserve it all.
In all these things, i believe only forgiveness works and it will take time to heal but Mrs Clinton knows better.Whatever emotions there is will not solve anything, it only leaves more hurt, anger and questions. Whatever analysis is being done, it can never do what forgiveness will do. Reputation is a waste right now and it will further show that this world and its glories are all vanity, chasing the wind. When a married man gets taken over the emotions that runs below the waste lines, when a man forgets what a strange woman is and when a man really cannot beyond his nose,then disgrace is not far off. We can say all we like, judge it all, give these men names but it will not wash it away....only forgiveness will and only God gives that grace.
Yesterday, i was listening to a radio and it was been argued that only a woman truly knows the paternity of her children. It is a topic of debate but sincerely, all these are takes of the flesh, the sins of the human flesh and the hunger to feed on something we will later discover, satisfieth not. It is the drive to be, achieve, the race to conceal our sins and the emptiness in what i will call foolishness. These heart broken women should not throw away their homes because, divorce will not wash it away, justifying their stand or taking the righteous stand will not wash it away, it is what the world wants and it only makes the news better.
They just have to forgive and the rest of us, should really learn from it. they are humans after all. Many men have their sins and it is sad, these guys have to deal with washing their dirty linen with feelings, thoughts of regrets, shame and doubts.It is life, shit happens. They men will have to deal with it, face it and find a way to move on. Forgiveness, as hard as it is, it is not impossible, having lived with a man for a considerable period of time, coped with all sorts of things in good and bad times, the children and the good times, the secrets shared.... just throwing it away, will not solve it. It may make it feel better instantly but it will not do what forgiveness can do. Besides, where do their families begin from? it is painful but forgiveness will make all the difference. The pain of this relationships......GOD HELP US! But what if there is another side to Mr Dominique's story? most people may not be interested....it is how the world is. Bad news sells and when Big men fall, we always relish those headlines.
I bet Mr IMF is reflecting and possibly contemplating suicide, i am sure he has many things running through his head and you will ask, how could he have stooped so low or some will say, they man just fell for a trap....and so is Arnold. What ever pushed them to such situations is no longer important, we continually just question why, search our hearts for answers and the pain, disappointments of both families can not be measured, doubts and disgrace lingers but beyond all these, i want to live inside these men and think through their minds. Its a fact they are suffering already and its only goes to say much about men and their secret lives.Things like this can destroy families, separate couples as in the case of Maria and Arnold. Its a thing to be angry about but all that emotions will not do the good that forgiveness will do. We have to learn from Mrs Clinton, who expressed her brokenness in her book, LIVING HISTORY. The only way forward is forgiveness, even though it is really hard.
These men are just facing their secrets, dark secrets and thats because we have heard it. How about those we don't even know, will never know? It is not the common path but forgiveness is just it. This is the time for both men to think over what has become of their lives, if they do not have a place for God in their lives it is time to have that. They need to experience God and peace in their hearts. As a Christian, you will realize that the world is filled with chaos, all sorts of things but peace, togetherness is found only in JESUS. Outside, they will be judged and humanly speaking, they deserve it all.
In all these things, i believe only forgiveness works and it will take time to heal but Mrs Clinton knows better.Whatever emotions there is will not solve anything, it only leaves more hurt, anger and questions. Whatever analysis is being done, it can never do what forgiveness will do. Reputation is a waste right now and it will further show that this world and its glories are all vanity, chasing the wind. When a married man gets taken over the emotions that runs below the waste lines, when a man forgets what a strange woman is and when a man really cannot beyond his nose,then disgrace is not far off. We can say all we like, judge it all, give these men names but it will not wash it away....only forgiveness will and only God gives that grace.
Yesterday, i was listening to a radio and it was been argued that only a woman truly knows the paternity of her children. It is a topic of debate but sincerely, all these are takes of the flesh, the sins of the human flesh and the hunger to feed on something we will later discover, satisfieth not. It is the drive to be, achieve, the race to conceal our sins and the emptiness in what i will call foolishness. These heart broken women should not throw away their homes because, divorce will not wash it away, justifying their stand or taking the righteous stand will not wash it away, it is what the world wants and it only makes the news better.
They just have to forgive and the rest of us, should really learn from it. they are humans after all. Many men have their sins and it is sad, these guys have to deal with washing their dirty linen with feelings, thoughts of regrets, shame and doubts.It is life, shit happens. They men will have to deal with it, face it and find a way to move on. Forgiveness, as hard as it is, it is not impossible, having lived with a man for a considerable period of time, coped with all sorts of things in good and bad times, the children and the good times, the secrets shared.... just throwing it away, will not solve it. It may make it feel better instantly but it will not do what forgiveness can do. Besides, where do their families begin from? it is painful but forgiveness will make all the difference. The pain of this relationships......GOD HELP US! But what if there is another side to Mr Dominique's story? most people may not be interested....it is how the world is. Bad news sells and when Big men fall, we always relish those headlines.
WHAT SHEA BUTTER CAN DO FOR YOU
SHEA BUTTER
Shea butter (Butyrospermum parkii), also known as karite butter, is a cream-colored fatty substance made from the nuts of karite nut trees (also called Mangifolia trees) that grow in the savannah regions of West and Central Africa. Karite trees, or Shea trees, are not cultivated. They grow only in the wild, and can take up to 50 years to mature (they live up to 300 years!). In most parts of West Africa, destruction of the Shea tree is prohibited because this little nut provides a valuable source of food, medicine, and income for the population. In fact, Shea Butter is sometimes referred to as “women’s gold” in Africa, because so many women are employed in the production of Shea Butter. It known as ORI in the West and OKUME amongst the IGALA speaking people of Kogi State. The Trees are found around Middle belt region of Nigeria (Kogi, Nassarawa, Benue, Niger, Plateau and Kwara) North East (Taraba), some parts of the south west Region (Oyo, Ogun and Osun). It comes in white or light yellow, depending on the method of production, whatever the colour; the properties do not really differ. It is available at local herbal shops in some markets, sold in very small wraps for as low as N 50 and it comes in containers as much as N 300 but it can be gotten at interior local villages in large quantities.
Shea nuts are primarily grown in West and Central Africa in the semi-arid Sahel,referred to by traders as the "Shea Belt". Vitellaria paradoxa and Vitellaria nilotica are the two main varieties. Vitellaria paradoxais exported in the largest volume and grows throughout the West African region. Vitellaria nilotica is produced primarily in Northern Uganda and southern Sudan. Shea nut products, the solid fat (butter or stearin) and the liquid oil (olein), are ideal for use as raw materials in cooking oil,margarine, cosmetics, soap, detergents and candles, but it has found its primary market niche as a substitute for cocoa butter in the chocolate and confectionery industry.
Shea butter has been used to help heal burns, sores, scars, dermatitis, psoriasis, dandruff, and stretch marks. It may also help diminish wrinkles by moisturizing the skin, promoting cell renewal, and increasing circulation. Shea butter also contains cinnamic acid, a substance that helps protect the skin from harmful UV rays.
Shea butter is a particularly effective moisturizer because contains so many fatty acids, which are needed to retain skin moisture and elasticity. The high fatty acid content of Shea Butter also makes it an excellent additive to soap, shampoos, anti-aging creams, cosmetics, lotions, and massage oils—its soft, butter-like texture melts readily into the skin. Shea butter protects the skin from both environmental and free-radical damage. It contains vitamins A and E, and has demonstrated both antimicrobial and anti-inflammatory properties.
Unrefined Shea Butter is superior in that it retains all its natural vitamins, especially vitamin A and vitamin E. However, the natural smell of Shea can be a bit off-putting (stinky), though the aroma does disappear after it has been applied to your skin within minutes. You can also buy ultra-refined and refined Shea Butter. Both of these types have a more pleasing scent, colour, and consistency, although the refining process may diminish the vitamin potency. Not all Shea Butter products are created equal, and some products contain a significant amount of potentially irritating additives and very little real Shea Butter. That said, one hundred percent natural Shea Butter is a handy thing to have around the house. It can be used as an all-natural hair conditioner, moisturizer, and makeup remover, or as a treatment for burns, cuts, scrapes, sunburns, and diaper rash.
The concept is to source for Shea Butter Locally, Process it locally with the women around that area into buckets and then it will be packaged. After which it will available for sale. The source will be from the very best and the region with the best processing method. The whole process will be cost effective, to make it affordable, quality will not be compromised, the reason it will be hand-made processing the nuts, a process that will prevent loss of major nutrients and minerals, the very essence of natural Shea Butter. The sale of essential oil will compliment it; this gives target consumers the choice to mix it with the Shea Butter for those who will not like the natural smell. This will be pure, it will be sourced and processed locally, the essence it to retain the properties, the essence of nature. Mixing Shea Butter with some additives will alter the effectiveness as some properties will be lost. Traditionally, Shea Butter has proven to be effective used alone, even though some users mix with other local materials because of majorly the smell.
USES
Shea butter has been used to help heal burns, sores, scars, dermatitis, psoriasis, dandruff, and stretch marks. It may also help diminish wrinkles by moisturizing the skin, promoting cell renewal, and increasing circulation. Shea butter also contains cinnamic acid, a substance that helps protect the skin from harmful UV rays.
Shea butter is a particularly effective moisturizer because contains so many fatty acids, which are needed to retain skin moisture and elasticity. The high fatty acid content of shea butter also makes it an excellent additive to soap, shampoos, anti-aging creams, cosmetics, lotions, and massage oils—its soft, butter-like texture melts readily into the skin.
Shea butter protects the skin from both environmental and free-radical damage. It contains vitamins A and E, and has demonstrated both antimicrobial and anti-inflammatory properties.
Shea butter is already added to many cosmetic products, but you can also purchase 100 percent pure shea butter at most health food stores and from online distributors. Unrefined shea butter is superior in that it retains all its natural vitamins, especially vitamin A and vitamin E. However, the natural smell of shea can be a bit off-putting (stinky), though the aroma does disappear after it has been applied to your skin within minutes. You can also buy ultra-refined and refined shea butter. Both of these types are have a more pleasing scent, color, and consistency, although the refining process may diminish the vitamin potency.
Many online distributors sell shea butter in various sizes, containers, prices, and types, but make sure to do your research before buying them—not all shea butter products are created equal, and some products contain a significant amount of potentially irritating additives and very little real shea butter. That said, one hundred percent natural shea butter is a handy thing to have around the house. It can be used as an all-natural hair conditioner, moisturizer, and makeup remover, or as a treatment for burns, cuts, scrapes, sunburns, and diaper rash. Shea butter may also help treat skin problems such as eczema and psoriasis; however, keep in mind that you should always consult a physician or dermatologist about serious or persistent skin problems. Shea butter is not recommended for people with nut or latex allergies.
Shea butter (Butyrospermum parkii), also known as karite butter, is a cream-colored fatty substance made from the nuts of karite nut trees (also called Mangifolia trees) that grow in the savannah regions of West and Central Africa. Karite trees, or Shea trees, are not cultivated. They grow only in the wild, and can take up to 50 years to mature (they live up to 300 years!). In most parts of West Africa, destruction of the Shea tree is prohibited because this little nut provides a valuable source of food, medicine, and income for the population. In fact, Shea Butter is sometimes referred to as “women’s gold” in Africa, because so many women are employed in the production of Shea Butter. It known as ORI in the West and OKUME amongst the IGALA speaking people of Kogi State. The Trees are found around Middle belt region of Nigeria (Kogi, Nassarawa, Benue, Niger, Plateau and Kwara) North East (Taraba), some parts of the south west Region (Oyo, Ogun and Osun). It comes in white or light yellow, depending on the method of production, whatever the colour; the properties do not really differ. It is available at local herbal shops in some markets, sold in very small wraps for as low as N 50 and it comes in containers as much as N 300 but it can be gotten at interior local villages in large quantities.
Shea nuts are primarily grown in West and Central Africa in the semi-arid Sahel,referred to by traders as the "Shea Belt". Vitellaria paradoxa and Vitellaria nilotica are the two main varieties. Vitellaria paradoxais exported in the largest volume and grows throughout the West African region. Vitellaria nilotica is produced primarily in Northern Uganda and southern Sudan. Shea nut products, the solid fat (butter or stearin) and the liquid oil (olein), are ideal for use as raw materials in cooking oil,margarine, cosmetics, soap, detergents and candles, but it has found its primary market niche as a substitute for cocoa butter in the chocolate and confectionery industry.
Shea butter has been used to help heal burns, sores, scars, dermatitis, psoriasis, dandruff, and stretch marks. It may also help diminish wrinkles by moisturizing the skin, promoting cell renewal, and increasing circulation. Shea butter also contains cinnamic acid, a substance that helps protect the skin from harmful UV rays.
Shea butter is a particularly effective moisturizer because contains so many fatty acids, which are needed to retain skin moisture and elasticity. The high fatty acid content of Shea Butter also makes it an excellent additive to soap, shampoos, anti-aging creams, cosmetics, lotions, and massage oils—its soft, butter-like texture melts readily into the skin. Shea butter protects the skin from both environmental and free-radical damage. It contains vitamins A and E, and has demonstrated both antimicrobial and anti-inflammatory properties.
Unrefined Shea Butter is superior in that it retains all its natural vitamins, especially vitamin A and vitamin E. However, the natural smell of Shea can be a bit off-putting (stinky), though the aroma does disappear after it has been applied to your skin within minutes. You can also buy ultra-refined and refined Shea Butter. Both of these types have a more pleasing scent, colour, and consistency, although the refining process may diminish the vitamin potency. Not all Shea Butter products are created equal, and some products contain a significant amount of potentially irritating additives and very little real Shea Butter. That said, one hundred percent natural Shea Butter is a handy thing to have around the house. It can be used as an all-natural hair conditioner, moisturizer, and makeup remover, or as a treatment for burns, cuts, scrapes, sunburns, and diaper rash.
The concept is to source for Shea Butter Locally, Process it locally with the women around that area into buckets and then it will be packaged. After which it will available for sale. The source will be from the very best and the region with the best processing method. The whole process will be cost effective, to make it affordable, quality will not be compromised, the reason it will be hand-made processing the nuts, a process that will prevent loss of major nutrients and minerals, the very essence of natural Shea Butter. The sale of essential oil will compliment it; this gives target consumers the choice to mix it with the Shea Butter for those who will not like the natural smell. This will be pure, it will be sourced and processed locally, the essence it to retain the properties, the essence of nature. Mixing Shea Butter with some additives will alter the effectiveness as some properties will be lost. Traditionally, Shea Butter has proven to be effective used alone, even though some users mix with other local materials because of majorly the smell.
USES
Shea butter has been used to help heal burns, sores, scars, dermatitis, psoriasis, dandruff, and stretch marks. It may also help diminish wrinkles by moisturizing the skin, promoting cell renewal, and increasing circulation. Shea butter also contains cinnamic acid, a substance that helps protect the skin from harmful UV rays.
Shea butter is a particularly effective moisturizer because contains so many fatty acids, which are needed to retain skin moisture and elasticity. The high fatty acid content of shea butter also makes it an excellent additive to soap, shampoos, anti-aging creams, cosmetics, lotions, and massage oils—its soft, butter-like texture melts readily into the skin.
Shea butter protects the skin from both environmental and free-radical damage. It contains vitamins A and E, and has demonstrated both antimicrobial and anti-inflammatory properties.
Shea butter is already added to many cosmetic products, but you can also purchase 100 percent pure shea butter at most health food stores and from online distributors. Unrefined shea butter is superior in that it retains all its natural vitamins, especially vitamin A and vitamin E. However, the natural smell of shea can be a bit off-putting (stinky), though the aroma does disappear after it has been applied to your skin within minutes. You can also buy ultra-refined and refined shea butter. Both of these types are have a more pleasing scent, color, and consistency, although the refining process may diminish the vitamin potency.
Many online distributors sell shea butter in various sizes, containers, prices, and types, but make sure to do your research before buying them—not all shea butter products are created equal, and some products contain a significant amount of potentially irritating additives and very little real shea butter. That said, one hundred percent natural shea butter is a handy thing to have around the house. It can be used as an all-natural hair conditioner, moisturizer, and makeup remover, or as a treatment for burns, cuts, scrapes, sunburns, and diaper rash. Shea butter may also help treat skin problems such as eczema and psoriasis; however, keep in mind that you should always consult a physician or dermatologist about serious or persistent skin problems. Shea butter is not recommended for people with nut or latex allergies.
Monday, January 17, 2011
HELP ME....WHAT IS SUCCESS?
What is success? it is easy to associate success with how much material you have. Its understandable to think that way, thats the trend. It is so much about what you have. money rules the world..no doubt. If you don't have money, almost like nothing happens for you. But is it so much about money? So is it really true that success is about how much money you have? The Bible says money answereth all things and money is good, yet money is not everything. I use to fear being broke and the panic of being without money is just pathetic but the last time i was broke i survived, i didn't die, i just worried my self to death because of what money meant to me....Money with all its goodness is certainly not everything. Who you are is not about what you have because if your personality is tied so much to what you have, the job you do, you will be crushed and perhaps, be nobody when its suddenly taken from you. Be so tied to that kind of life is an empty way to live. It can form part of your personality and some people will relate with you on that ground but you have to understand that who you are should transcend beyond all that. When they are no longer there, you will loose the crowd, people will vanish and things can be lonely and hard but if your personality is not tied, you be who you are, regardless. The society is driven by that thought and we are swayed into valuing people based on what they have. We worship people with what they have so much that they feel a sense of invincibility but when its suddenly taken away, people just become desperate to hold onto that life even to the last straw at all cost......its all because they have no life outside that. They only define who they are with all that stuffs and image.
Isn't Life more than that? really....are we so much about the materials that surrounds us? What if its suddenly taken? why do we cling so much to materials? Once people don't have what we think to be wealth, once they do not have what we define as swagger or once they do not have at all, we think we are more successful, we continually compare and compete in a race, run ourselves out to have, we are never satisfied. we suddenly begin having an exaggerated sense of ourselves.... even people who say they do not have pride, do! The average Black man does, thats why little success, wealth, power becomes our weakness. You see this in our classrooms, in our offices, on TV, on the streets, in places of worship and even in our football. Our personality is much tied to things that fade, it drives us, it defines us and its what we live for.
some people say, when you think this way it is probably a way to justify having a low life or a sign of envy....is that really true? when you have a great life, you sure do not have to explain to people and besides, so things in life have practical proofs. One of them is the fact that money is not everything and if you don't have a strong sense of who you are, what you want, you will be lost.
Live your best life, be all you can and never settle less and being broke is really bad but who you are should not be so much about what you have. Being all you, does not mean you should be mediocre. If you live so much for having the materials, it will be a case of vanity not the essence of life. You miss the important thing when you do not know what success really is, by the time you are 50 years old, if you are still alive, things will begin to change and then you really know, Money isn't everything!
I am an advocate for the essentials of life....things of eternal value, not like its an easy way to be because vanity screams everywhere. Nature, Laughter, Friendship, Family, conscience: the little miracles of everyday living, the sunshine, finding time to sit down after all the hustling, having time for family, pursuing things with eternal rewards....all these things that cost nothing! We are often so busy pursuing what success is to many of us, we miss out the important moments in our lives, we just hustle and hustle chasing the wind. I have not said, people should be lazy in fact, you have to work hard to succeed but then as you run around never loose sight of what is really important. In the end, Life is short, when a man dies, it ends, whatever the predicament, whatever the success, people will talk but you see the world will move on, memories will fade with time. Focus on what is really important, as you hustle, wanting the best, enjoying at every step of the way, as you go for the impossible, as you believe in yourself to take that step.....focus on the essence, never the vanities!
Isn't Life more than that? really....are we so much about the materials that surrounds us? What if its suddenly taken? why do we cling so much to materials? Once people don't have what we think to be wealth, once they do not have what we define as swagger or once they do not have at all, we think we are more successful, we continually compare and compete in a race, run ourselves out to have, we are never satisfied. we suddenly begin having an exaggerated sense of ourselves.... even people who say they do not have pride, do! The average Black man does, thats why little success, wealth, power becomes our weakness. You see this in our classrooms, in our offices, on TV, on the streets, in places of worship and even in our football. Our personality is much tied to things that fade, it drives us, it defines us and its what we live for.
some people say, when you think this way it is probably a way to justify having a low life or a sign of envy....is that really true? when you have a great life, you sure do not have to explain to people and besides, so things in life have practical proofs. One of them is the fact that money is not everything and if you don't have a strong sense of who you are, what you want, you will be lost.
Live your best life, be all you can and never settle less and being broke is really bad but who you are should not be so much about what you have. Being all you, does not mean you should be mediocre. If you live so much for having the materials, it will be a case of vanity not the essence of life. You miss the important thing when you do not know what success really is, by the time you are 50 years old, if you are still alive, things will begin to change and then you really know, Money isn't everything!
I am an advocate for the essentials of life....things of eternal value, not like its an easy way to be because vanity screams everywhere. Nature, Laughter, Friendship, Family, conscience: the little miracles of everyday living, the sunshine, finding time to sit down after all the hustling, having time for family, pursuing things with eternal rewards....all these things that cost nothing! We are often so busy pursuing what success is to many of us, we miss out the important moments in our lives, we just hustle and hustle chasing the wind. I have not said, people should be lazy in fact, you have to work hard to succeed but then as you run around never loose sight of what is really important. In the end, Life is short, when a man dies, it ends, whatever the predicament, whatever the success, people will talk but you see the world will move on, memories will fade with time. Focus on what is really important, as you hustle, wanting the best, enjoying at every step of the way, as you go for the impossible, as you believe in yourself to take that step.....focus on the essence, never the vanities!
Friday, December 31, 2010
Epiphany: LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE!
Epiphany: LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE!: "2010 is almost gone or should i say gone? Its been a great year and am sure we all have our experience like other years past, from that unbo..."
LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE!
2010 is almost gone or should i say gone? Its been a great year and am sure we all have our experience like other years past, from that unborn child, to the Okada man, that dream filled student, the young teenager trying to figure out what is really cool, the graduate trying to settle for a white collar job....the business men and women in Onitsha, Alaba, Aba or let say everywhere, those trying hard to climb up the corporate ladder, the old man forgotten in one remote village, superstars and our darling politicians, whether you won or lost.....whoever you are, where ever you are, you surely can relate with 2010, you have your story!
Do not be caught in the web of making resolutions again, if you are not committed to making your everyday better,you probably be caught in the same cycle,hoping, planning but nothing happens. You just keep practicing positive thinking, reading all the good books with the best of intentions, following Donald Trump on being an apprentice....great way to live but you just have to do something about what you already know. Be tired...so tired!
Do not let anything hold you back, go all out and do your thing..live your life and commit yourself to living your best life. This is not about money, its just a thing of choice. Face what is not working in your life and stand up for yourself. yeah! do it for yourself....make yourself happy, stop making excuses for things that are keeping you back. Quit planning, now is time to do. Thats the difference, knowing what you want, thinking it trough and doing something about it. Act on what you already know.
2011 is here, make it count for you. Commit yourself to what you believe in to be true. Find the courage to be alive, make your choice and live your life. Its going to be a challenge but trust me, its going to be worth it. Lets stop blaming the economy, the government, our backgrounds for things that happen to us. its your life and you have to take responsibility for that.
lets stop worrying about what goes on in other people's lives and face our own, lets stop wondering why Beyonce is not pregnant, or why Rhianna has changed or how someone is badly dressed, how they spend their money....come down from your high seat of judgment and criticism and live your own life. Mind your business! The time we spend trying to fix other people's business, gossip their ills or how to fix Nigeria, the whole world will make sense if we start facing ourselves, start with you. As you mind yourself, be anxious for nothing, enjoy your everyday life and see the good in everything. People will not always agree with you, your choices even those who you feel are supposed to be on your side,you just have to believe in your self and keep moving. People don't trust what they cannot explain.Sometimes, its better not to care at all.
its a choice thing.....its up to you. As for me, i have made that commitment to live my best life. Life is short. Even GOD wants you to be the best. LIVE YOUR LIFE, YOUR BEST LIFE EVER!
Do not be caught in the web of making resolutions again, if you are not committed to making your everyday better,you probably be caught in the same cycle,hoping, planning but nothing happens. You just keep practicing positive thinking, reading all the good books with the best of intentions, following Donald Trump on being an apprentice....great way to live but you just have to do something about what you already know. Be tired...so tired!
Do not let anything hold you back, go all out and do your thing..live your life and commit yourself to living your best life. This is not about money, its just a thing of choice. Face what is not working in your life and stand up for yourself. yeah! do it for yourself....make yourself happy, stop making excuses for things that are keeping you back. Quit planning, now is time to do. Thats the difference, knowing what you want, thinking it trough and doing something about it. Act on what you already know.
2011 is here, make it count for you. Commit yourself to what you believe in to be true. Find the courage to be alive, make your choice and live your life. Its going to be a challenge but trust me, its going to be worth it. Lets stop blaming the economy, the government, our backgrounds for things that happen to us. its your life and you have to take responsibility for that.
lets stop worrying about what goes on in other people's lives and face our own, lets stop wondering why Beyonce is not pregnant, or why Rhianna has changed or how someone is badly dressed, how they spend their money....come down from your high seat of judgment and criticism and live your own life. Mind your business! The time we spend trying to fix other people's business, gossip their ills or how to fix Nigeria, the whole world will make sense if we start facing ourselves, start with you. As you mind yourself, be anxious for nothing, enjoy your everyday life and see the good in everything. People will not always agree with you, your choices even those who you feel are supposed to be on your side,you just have to believe in your self and keep moving. People don't trust what they cannot explain.Sometimes, its better not to care at all.
its a choice thing.....its up to you. As for me, i have made that commitment to live my best life. Life is short. Even GOD wants you to be the best. LIVE YOUR LIFE, YOUR BEST LIFE EVER!
Monday, December 20, 2010
RAT RACE....
Does that word sound familiar? i bet it does. We all know it and use it in sentences to buttress our points......but how many of us know we are in that race? like it or not, many of us are in that race? the LONGMAN DICTIONARY OF CONTEMPORARY ENGLISH describes rat race as this: "The unpleasant situation experienced by people working in big cities, when they continuously compete for success and have a lot of stress in their lives". So, even If you do not know that word, the dictionary has helped us to make it easy. It is so pathetic, very pathetic how we just run around everyday hustling and many of us are like slaves, like what one writer calls modern slavery. We continually find a reason to stick in there, we live in denial enduring stuffs we know we are better off without them. What are we so afraid of? We fear risks and instead of breaking free, we just limit ourselves.
Obviously, we like the rat race, or am i getting it wrong? people complain about everything, even their jobs but are the willing to walk away from it? no way, how will they survive? yeah, yeah, thats the whole cycle. people continually find a reason to endure, play it safe and wait for the right time for things to happen, they wait till they have saved enough, before you know, they are forty years old and some take their frustrations on their young kids who want to escape the lives their parents have lived.
For many people, career is being all dressed up with id cards and tagging your life on to one big company. The "prestige" of saying i work with this or that company, hang out with colleagues, earn some money and spend.....in the end, you have lived the most active part of your life being a slave to someone at the expense of your dreams in a bid to keep body and soul together. People just want to endure, they keep complaining but lack the courage to walk away and if you miss your way to tell them, you want to quit, they begin to tell you, how bad the economy is, why you should wait and the truth is, they will never share in your frustrations. They tell you, they understand and why you should be patient but they never follow you to work 12-14 hours. They really love you, don't you agree? telling you to endure what they never will, so much for the advice.
Life is basically choice, if you know what you want, you will get on with it. We have to tell ourselves the truth fa i just made one and know how it feels. In fact, they leave you with no friends, people will mock you for being so stupid leaving your lucrative career....but if you can make that choice, take that step, face your fears, you will get through. Ask FELA DUROTOYE and CHIMAMANDA ADICHIE, ask BASKETMOUTH and ask the average guy with a white collar job. Its not in carriage, its not in your paycheck, lets stop screaming careers like we really have one. we just get all dressed up in the morning, join the rest of the population in the race, walk tall with head high but deep down we are empty,coming home tired and wake up he next day into the same life. No time to focus on what is essential in this life but vanities. we run after things that has no eternal reward, we become selfish trying to find fulfillment in material things....just follow the bandwagon but no destination, roaming and roaming! we measure success by competing with others and we use people as a yardstick for what is really cool. we just become exhausted, running after degrees, all kinds of stuffs and we never get to have a life. We miss out on the simple miracles of everyday life, laughter, sunshine, family, friendship because we all working our asses off to fit in,to be classy and have it all. We are never satisfied. The only way out of rat race is to figure what you enjoy and make it happen.
we really should be tired of running this rat race. The average white collar faithful has watched all the seasons of THE APPRENTICE with Donald Trump, they know all the great Authors but thats how good it goes, nothing happens, its still the same rat race.. Are you not tired of reading all the books, be caught in the moment of adrenalin rush the books give you only to go back to the same life, running to the office, frustrated doing the same thing waiting for salary.You just tell yourself, one day, it will all over, you plan waiting for the right time, you never enjoy the cash because for the most part you are saving but then that day never comes,before you know, you are forty years old. we should never settle for less. set out to be the best and never limit yourself. Stop making excuses for things that are not working in your life. Stop wishing, make it happen for yourself. If you know truly, you are not happy, stop living in denial and face it. Its the least you can do for yourself. tell yourself, you deserve better, do away with thoughts that keep you down, people who that limits you to a mediocre, whoever they are. there is only one life and its up to you. As for me, i have made my choice and am sticking with it. I am getting a life for myself. Doing what i love....the cash will come, its the only way to be alive. I am tired of running the rat race!
Obviously, we like the rat race, or am i getting it wrong? people complain about everything, even their jobs but are the willing to walk away from it? no way, how will they survive? yeah, yeah, thats the whole cycle. people continually find a reason to endure, play it safe and wait for the right time for things to happen, they wait till they have saved enough, before you know, they are forty years old and some take their frustrations on their young kids who want to escape the lives their parents have lived.
For many people, career is being all dressed up with id cards and tagging your life on to one big company. The "prestige" of saying i work with this or that company, hang out with colleagues, earn some money and spend.....in the end, you have lived the most active part of your life being a slave to someone at the expense of your dreams in a bid to keep body and soul together. People just want to endure, they keep complaining but lack the courage to walk away and if you miss your way to tell them, you want to quit, they begin to tell you, how bad the economy is, why you should wait and the truth is, they will never share in your frustrations. They tell you, they understand and why you should be patient but they never follow you to work 12-14 hours. They really love you, don't you agree? telling you to endure what they never will, so much for the advice.
Life is basically choice, if you know what you want, you will get on with it. We have to tell ourselves the truth fa i just made one and know how it feels. In fact, they leave you with no friends, people will mock you for being so stupid leaving your lucrative career....but if you can make that choice, take that step, face your fears, you will get through. Ask FELA DUROTOYE and CHIMAMANDA ADICHIE, ask BASKETMOUTH and ask the average guy with a white collar job. Its not in carriage, its not in your paycheck, lets stop screaming careers like we really have one. we just get all dressed up in the morning, join the rest of the population in the race, walk tall with head high but deep down we are empty,coming home tired and wake up he next day into the same life. No time to focus on what is essential in this life but vanities. we run after things that has no eternal reward, we become selfish trying to find fulfillment in material things....just follow the bandwagon but no destination, roaming and roaming! we measure success by competing with others and we use people as a yardstick for what is really cool. we just become exhausted, running after degrees, all kinds of stuffs and we never get to have a life. We miss out on the simple miracles of everyday life, laughter, sunshine, family, friendship because we all working our asses off to fit in,to be classy and have it all. We are never satisfied. The only way out of rat race is to figure what you enjoy and make it happen.
we really should be tired of running this rat race. The average white collar faithful has watched all the seasons of THE APPRENTICE with Donald Trump, they know all the great Authors but thats how good it goes, nothing happens, its still the same rat race.. Are you not tired of reading all the books, be caught in the moment of adrenalin rush the books give you only to go back to the same life, running to the office, frustrated doing the same thing waiting for salary.You just tell yourself, one day, it will all over, you plan waiting for the right time, you never enjoy the cash because for the most part you are saving but then that day never comes,before you know, you are forty years old. we should never settle for less. set out to be the best and never limit yourself. Stop making excuses for things that are not working in your life. Stop wishing, make it happen for yourself. If you know truly, you are not happy, stop living in denial and face it. Its the least you can do for yourself. tell yourself, you deserve better, do away with thoughts that keep you down, people who that limits you to a mediocre, whoever they are. there is only one life and its up to you. As for me, i have made my choice and am sticking with it. I am getting a life for myself. Doing what i love....the cash will come, its the only way to be alive. I am tired of running the rat race!
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