How many questions can we ask or how do we weigh the pain.....its not justified and no amount of tears can wash the deeds away. No man is super after all, as we are beginning to learn, that even mighty men can fall and no doubt, if a married man should start welcome the advances of strange women, for lack of words or invites it out of his will, then his falling is certain. The woman's issue,what some will say the other woman. People never learn and even with this, you still hear people judge Mr Dominique and Mr Arnold....its not about judging them, this is a lesson for us to learn from. That no matter how high a man is or how much influence he wills,if he is caught pants down, its dangerous position to be caught.
I bet Mr IMF is reflecting and possibly contemplating suicide, i am sure he has many things running through his head and you will ask, how could he have stooped so low or some will say, they man just fell for a trap....and so is Arnold. What ever pushed them to such situations is no longer important, we continually just question why, search our hearts for answers and the pain, disappointments of both families can not be measured, doubts and disgrace lingers but beyond all these, i want to live inside these men and think through their minds. Its a fact they are suffering already and its only goes to say much about men and their secret lives.Things like this can destroy families, separate couples as in the case of Maria and Arnold. Its a thing to be angry about but all that emotions will not do the good that forgiveness will do. We have to learn from Mrs Clinton, who expressed her brokenness in her book, LIVING HISTORY. The only way forward is forgiveness, even though it is really hard.
These men are just facing their secrets, dark secrets and thats because we have heard it. How about those we don't even know, will never know? It is not the common path but forgiveness is just it. This is the time for both men to think over what has become of their lives, if they do not have a place for God in their lives it is time to have that. They need to experience God and peace in their hearts. As a Christian, you will realize that the world is filled with chaos, all sorts of things but peace, togetherness is found only in JESUS. Outside, they will be judged and humanly speaking, they deserve it all.
In all these things, i believe only forgiveness works and it will take time to heal but Mrs Clinton knows better.Whatever emotions there is will not solve anything, it only leaves more hurt, anger and questions. Whatever analysis is being done, it can never do what forgiveness will do. Reputation is a waste right now and it will further show that this world and its glories are all vanity, chasing the wind. When a married man gets taken over the emotions that runs below the waste lines, when a man forgets what a strange woman is and when a man really cannot beyond his nose,then disgrace is not far off. We can say all we like, judge it all, give these men names but it will not wash it away....only forgiveness will and only God gives that grace.
Yesterday, i was listening to a radio and it was been argued that only a woman truly knows the paternity of her children. It is a topic of debate but sincerely, all these are takes of the flesh, the sins of the human flesh and the hunger to feed on something we will later discover, satisfieth not. It is the drive to be, achieve, the race to conceal our sins and the emptiness in what i will call foolishness. These heart broken women should not throw away their homes because, divorce will not wash it away, justifying their stand or taking the righteous stand will not wash it away, it is what the world wants and it only makes the news better.
They just have to forgive and the rest of us, should really learn from it. they are humans after all. Many men have their sins and it is sad, these guys have to deal with washing their dirty linen with feelings, thoughts of regrets, shame and doubts.It is life, shit happens. They men will have to deal with it, face it and find a way to move on. Forgiveness, as hard as it is, it is not impossible, having lived with a man for a considerable period of time, coped with all sorts of things in good and bad times, the children and the good times, the secrets shared.... just throwing it away, will not solve it. It may make it feel better instantly but it will not do what forgiveness can do. Besides, where do their families begin from? it is painful but forgiveness will make all the difference. The pain of this relationships......GOD HELP US! But what if there is another side to Mr Dominique's story? most people may not be interested....it is how the world is. Bad news sells and when Big men fall, we always relish those headlines.
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