The society is so taken by eye service....people do not even know what they want. they sell themselves short, do all silly stuffs to be noticed, it is so dry....ouch! some practically do it as a way of playing smart but i just see it as a way of becoming a low life! selling your self short! you do not need to become that little. people do not need to always like you, they only need to respect you. that is key! you do not even need to practice eye service, in fact, its not necessary. if you are good, there is no prejudice!
i just try to understand what the difference between eye service and courtesy really is. can someone help me out? it is what is killing our society and many people use that as a measure of loyalty, superiors fall fall for it. we always don't like blunt and truthful people....we want to be surrounded with people who always like us, people who treat us as kings..its a great thing but people that tell us the truth is very key, that is the reason why we roam around the same circle. we need people who are sincere, people who encourage you to face the truth about your life, the challenges, that is the only way forward. the year is ending and we will be bombarded with all kinds of resolution talk, planning of all sorts.... it really doesn't solve a thing, if we don't face the root cause.
The world is filled with lies, people tell lies with straight faces and selfishness is just human.
Eye service is a sibling to mediocrity, if you are ever going to excel, never sell yourself short, all in a bid to get another man's nod or be his expectations.... you will end up miserable. when there is something to be gained, he will stick his head out first.
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